You may have heard of the no-more-mr-nice-guy paradox – the idea that women are attracted to bad boys and not nice guys. But this is just a myth. In reality, what women (and men) are attracted to is confidence, kindness, and authenticity.
No More Mr. Nice Guy is a famous book (and philosophy) that teaches how to have more success with and better treatment from women. Unfortunately, many men go by the title alone, without actually grasping the concepts of the book.
If you’re a nice guy who is also confident, kind, and authentic, you’ll have no problem finding and maintaining a successful relationship. But if your marriage is not working, it’s not because you suck at… being bad.
Don’t fall for the trap of thinking you can’t have better because of what you are. Changes are always positive, but don’t turn yourself into the bad guy. Many couples live unhappy marriages because of this and several other limiting beliefs and misplaced expectations about how relationships work.
I discuss some of these myths and misconceptions in a series of videos, and I believe this one, which I’m linking below, will ring a bell for you. Click on the link below to open the video, and let me know what you think.
